Start working on yourself! it does you and the world a great service. People can change. Mistakes, failures and adversity are necessary for growth. The human experience is different for everyone.
My example for perfection is Christ, but I know I will never be anywhere even close to Him.
I feel like everyone is under a lens and trying to find faults.
The fact of the matter is we live in a broken world, it was the cost of calvary and the sacrifice that was made on golgotha.
We have redemption and power through Christ.